YOUR NAME & WEDDING DATE * WHEN & HOW DID YOU TWO MEET? *
Can you recall the year, month, day and location or venue?
WHAT WERE YOUR FIRST IMPRESSIONS? *
WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR PARTNER'S FIRST THOUGHTS WERE ABOUT YOU? * TELL ME ALL ABOUT YOUR FIRST DATE? *
Where was it? How did it go?
WHEN DID YOU KNOW YOU WERE IN LOVE? *
Was there a particular moment?
WHAT DO YOU HAVE NOW THAT YOU DIDN'T HAVE BEFORE YOU MET?
Tip: Think head & heart, not material things. For
example, ‘an appreciation for homemade pasta’ or ‘a newfound open-mindedness and acceptance of
AFL after watching countless re-runs of the grand final’.
WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNT FROM THEM?
Tip: Be serious and lighthearted too. For example, ‘You’ve taught me to stand
up for the things I believe in. And you’ve taught me the many virtues of watching cricket. Actually, no, we’re
still working on that’
HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH ROUGH TIMES TOGETHER? WHAT DID IT MEAN TO HAVE THEM BY YOUR SIDE? HOW DO THEY INSPIRE YOU & WHAT DO YOU MOST RESPECT ABOUT THEM? WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE THING ABOUT THEM & WHAT SPECIAL QUIRK DO YOU LOVE ABOUT THEM THAT NO ONE ELSE WOULD KNOW? WHAT DO YOU MISS MOST ABOUT THEM WHEN YOU'RE APART? THEIR ANNOYING HABITS? SPILL THE BEANS! ARE THEY OBSESSED WITH ANYTHING? TELL ME ABOUT IT
A sporting team, hobby, brand, TV show...you get the idea!
IS THERE ANYTHING YOU WOULD LIKE TO WORK ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
Tip: this can be serious - or not.
E.G. Not leaving wet towels on the bathroom floor would actually help our relationship.
WHAT'S THE FUNNIEST EXPERIENCE YOU'VE ENJOYED TOGETHER? HAVE YOU TRAVELLED TOGETHER? WHAT DID THAT TEACH YOU ABOUT THEM? YOUR MOST ROMANTIC MOMENT TOGETHER? WHAT HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED TOGETHER THAT YOU PERHAPS WOULD NOT HAVE DONE ON YOUR OWN? WHEN & HOW DID YOU KNOW YOU WANTED TO MARRY THIS WONDERFUL HUMAN? * WHEN AND HOW DID THE PROPOSAL HAPPEN? *
Tell me about it and how long had you been together at this stage?
WAS IT A SURPRISE? WHAT WAS YOUR / THEIR REACTION? * WHAT ARE YOU MOST LOOKING FORWARD TO IN YOUR MARRIED LIFE TOGETHER? IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE YOU'D LIKE TO SHARE WITH ME?