YOUR NAME & WEDDING DATE * HOW DID YOU TWO MEET? *
E.G. Chiildhood sweethearts, online, introduced by a friend etc...
WHAT WERE YOUR FIRST IMPRESSIONS? *
WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR PARTNER'S FIRST THOUGHTS WERE ABOUT YOU? * TELL ME ALL ABOUT YOUR FIRST DATE? *
Where was it? How did it go?
WHEN DID YOU KNOW YOU WERE IN LOVE? *
Was there a particular moment?
WHEN & HOW DID YOU KNOW YOU WANTED TO MARRY THIS WONDERFUL HUMAN? * HOW DID THE PROPOSAL HAPPEN? *
Tell me about it and how long had you been together at this stage?
WAS IT A SURPRISE? WHAT WAS YOUR / THEIR REACTION? * HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN ENGAGED? * WHAT DO YOU HAVE NOW THAT YOU DIDN'T HAVE BEFORE YOU MET?
Tip: Think head & heart, not material things. For
example, ‘an appreciation for homemade pasta’ or ‘a newfound open-mindedness and acceptance of
AFL after watching countless re-runs of the grand final’.
WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNT FROM THEM?
Tip: Be serious and lighthearted too. For example, ‘You’ve taught me to stand
up for the things I believe in. And you’ve taught me the many virtues of watching cricket. Actually, no, we’re
still working on that’
HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH ROUGH TIMES TOGETHER? WHAT DID IT MEAN TO HAVE THEM BY YOUR SIDE? HOW DO THEY INSPIRE YOU? WHAT DO YOU RESPECT MOST ABOUT THEM? WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE THING ABOUT THEM? WHAT DO YOU MISS MOST ABOUT THEM WHEN YOU'RE APART? THEIR ANNOYING HABITS? SPILL THE BEANS! WHAT DO YOU WANT TO WORK ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
Tip: this can be serious - or not.
E.G. Not leaving wet towels on the bathroom floor would actually help our relationship.
WHAT'S THE FUNNIEST EXPERIENCE YOU'VE ENJOYED TOGETHER? YOUR MOST ROMANTIC MOMENT TOGETHER? WHAT SPECIAL QUIRK DO YOU LOVE ABOUT THEM THAT NO ONE ELSE WOULD KNOW? HAVE YOU TRAVELLED TOGETHER? WHAT DID THAT TEACH YOU ABOUT THEM? ARE THEY OBSESSED WITH ANYTHING? TELL ME ABOUT IT
A sporting team, hobby, brand, TV show...you get the idea!
WHAT HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED TOGETHER THAT YOU PERHAPS WOULD NOT HAVE DONE ON YOUR OWN? WHAT ARE YOU MOST LOOKING FORWARD TO IN YOUR MARRIED LIFE TOGETHER? IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE YOU'D LIKE TO SHARE WITH ME?